hi guys......
hows weekend going....
well just been caught up in some work...
its strange how we at times take our relationships for granted and hurt people who are our world and try to please people who would not matter.I guess that's the irony of our lives. well hoping to change that would like to share few thoughts on how to create that harmony,love,affection and trust.
first things first always remember there is no other way than to talk things out.it is always difficult to talk but if you listen carefully you will know how to talk.other person will never know if you don't say what you feel no one is genius,say what you feel and ask what you want to know..then you will see the world from their point of view and things will be much easier.
We love complicating things because simplicity scare s us and at times we don't know how to handle simple things and we believe in divine conspiracies as a result we carry baggage of past with us. We let our past decide our present.Its important that we understand something that is few seconds old also is past so let past rest and move on. its important to let go and not judge things with those shades.we create unwanted tangles and barriers around us. Let go and you will see the difference to do that self talk your self and say I forgive you for what happened and move on....
Often we have preconceived thoughts and notions about what relationships are and what they should be.Its natural we are in the industrial and material world notions and ideas are sold to us by all. but you need to be true to yourself and your partner to understand what effects you and implies to you.being open in relation does not only mean saying what you want to our sharing secrets of past but it actually is to know what you bring to relationship and how open are u to discuss that....
Resentment is something that leads to poisoning of relationship because it creates anger,hate, mistrust and most of all loss of respect towards other person. It not only breaks any option of communication but brings back old hurt and unmet expectations which triggers pain. it is important we realize two is for tango and not hold resentment specially unspoken and unexplained do not self victimize your self. instead show courage to accept responsibility for what is happening and initiate forgiveness and healing.
Relationship will grow into mutual respect, trust and love and will over come most devastating situations if we believe in self development,forgiveness and take courage to accept responsibility; we will be able to create more mature and meaningful relationship.
Invest in your relationships they will help you overcome toughest times of life....
well till next time...
cheers
hows weekend going....
well just been caught up in some work...
its strange how we at times take our relationships for granted and hurt people who are our world and try to please people who would not matter.I guess that's the irony of our lives. well hoping to change that would like to share few thoughts on how to create that harmony,love,affection and trust.
first things first always remember there is no other way than to talk things out.it is always difficult to talk but if you listen carefully you will know how to talk.other person will never know if you don't say what you feel no one is genius,say what you feel and ask what you want to know..then you will see the world from their point of view and things will be much easier.
We love complicating things because simplicity scare s us and at times we don't know how to handle simple things and we believe in divine conspiracies as a result we carry baggage of past with us. We let our past decide our present.Its important that we understand something that is few seconds old also is past so let past rest and move on. its important to let go and not judge things with those shades.we create unwanted tangles and barriers around us. Let go and you will see the difference to do that self talk your self and say I forgive you for what happened and move on....
Often we have preconceived thoughts and notions about what relationships are and what they should be.Its natural we are in the industrial and material world notions and ideas are sold to us by all. but you need to be true to yourself and your partner to understand what effects you and implies to you.being open in relation does not only mean saying what you want to our sharing secrets of past but it actually is to know what you bring to relationship and how open are u to discuss that....
Resentment is something that leads to poisoning of relationship because it creates anger,hate, mistrust and most of all loss of respect towards other person. It not only breaks any option of communication but brings back old hurt and unmet expectations which triggers pain. it is important we realize two is for tango and not hold resentment specially unspoken and unexplained do not self victimize your self. instead show courage to accept responsibility for what is happening and initiate forgiveness and healing.
Relationship will grow into mutual respect, trust and love and will over come most devastating situations if we believe in self development,forgiveness and take courage to accept responsibility; we will be able to create more mature and meaningful relationship.
Invest in your relationships they will help you overcome toughest times of life....
well till next time...
cheers
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